Your Sexual Self Doesn’t Care About Your Logic

A deep conversation about the “sexual self” — the inner part of you that governs desire, turn-ons, boundaries, and truth — and what happens when you stop silencing it.

What if the part of you that governs your sexuality doesn’t care about your self-image, your relationship rules, or what makes sense logically?

In this episode, I explore the concept of the sexual self — the independent inner persona that holds your desires, turn-ons, boundaries, fantasies, and truth.

I talk about:

• Why so many people feel conflicted in long-term relationships

• The disconnect between the logical self and the sexual self

• Why suppressing desire creates tension, numbness, and performance-based sex

• My own experience of silencing my bisexuality

• How conversations about non-monogamy often reveal a deeper issue: disconnection from desire itself

• The powerful shift that happens when you stop treating your sexuality like a problem to solve

This is not really an episode about non-monogamy.

It’s an episode about honesty.

About listening to the part of you that has been whispering underneath the performance all along.

PS. The movie I mention is called Golden Compass. 

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